Societal Constraints and Gender Dynamics in Adichie's Fiction

Themes of Constraint and Power in Adichie's Work

Suppression of Voice and Personal Autonomy

“Wait—” I said, so that I could take the nightdress off, so it would not seem so hasty. But he had crushed his mouth down on mine.” (Adichie 120)

• Husband's Dominance and Gender Roles

  This quote indicates the limitations and lack of freedom in a basic right: speech. The husband's position, both figuratively and physically above her, further highlights the dominance and abuse present due to prevailing gender roles.

• Chinaza's Lack of Refusal and Control

  It is also important to note that Chinaza does not refuse sex from him despite hating it. This exemplifies the control that men have over women and the inability to possess personal freedom for women in such relationships.

Linguistic and Cultural Assimilation

Another application of the concept of limiting freedoms within Arrangers of Marriage is evident in instances where Chinaza is corrected by Ofodile in certain phrases or words she uses. Despite the words she uses being grammatically correct, they are not the Westernized, Americanized, and modernized versions. Thus, she is corrected.

• Ofodile's Corrections and Westernization

  Examples from pages 123, 126, and 130 include her use of “biscuit,” “lift,” and “jug” respectively, instead of their more Americanized counterparts: “cookies,” “elevator,” and “pitcher.”

Expected Gratitude and Societal Norms

“And Uncle Ike would bellow about my ingratitude, my stupidity, his fist and face tightening, before dropping the phone.” (Adichie 131)

• The Pervasive Influence of Societal Norms

  This quote highlights how the relationship between husband and wife is perceived. Despite terrible abuse and negativity, women are still expected to be grateful and owe their husbands.

• Notice Adichie uses the word “would” rather than “might.” This indicates that there is no doubt this would occur, showing the pervasive influence of societal norms and expectations.

• Consequences of Non-Compliance

  The anger and violence perceived as a reaction to such ingratitude underscore the strictness of societal expectations and the fact that everyone must follow such expectations, or face punishment.

American Influences and Culinary Limitations

On Monday of last week, we observe further limitations:

“Do you want a fish fillet or chicken with your rice pilaf?” (54)

• Chinaza's Restricted Culinary Choices

  We can see that Chinaza is instantly limited by the food she is able to prepare. Despite being from Africa and having a vast array of dishes, she is forced to cook bland, frozen food. This serves as a commentary on limitations in America.