Mature vs. Immature Personality Traits: Key Differences

Mature vs. Immature Personality Traits

Immature Characteristics

• Inability to see and accept their mistakes: Proud, arrogant, does not mind being alone.
• Antisocial: Not adapted to social norms and society.
• Criticizes everyone and everything: Is a plaintive, unhappy, conflictive person.
• Does not provide adequate and lasting emotional bonds.
• Impulsivity: Passes the decision to act without reason; the unconscious dominates.
• Inability to learn from experience: Inability to learn lessons from their failures and modify their behavior.
• Irresponsible: Does not stay in any job.
• Sexuality is driven by promiscuity: Impersonality in the relationship and the difficulty of integrating sex and love (inability to love).
• Contempt for truth and spirituality: Their state of unconsciousness with their reality sometimes leads to cynicism, presuming hostile and destructive behavior.
• No feelings of anxiety or guilt for their inappropriate and negative behavior.

Mature Characteristics

• Interiority: Ability to reflect and deepen. Knows how to enjoy solitude and companionship.
• Autonomy: The ability to govern their emotions and feelings.
• Establishes deep and lasting bonds: Meeting and reception staff.
• Is open: Good listener and recognizes the good in others.
• Is pleased with the good and the overcoming of others.
• Absorbs criticism with peace: Acknowledges mistakes and learns from them.
• Has ethical value: Distinguishes good from bad. Capacity for discernment.
• Has objectivity: Proportional vision and appreciation of reality. Has criteria for judging the facts but does not judge people. Knows oneself.
• Takes risks and problems with wisdom and peace.
• Asks for help and knows how to serve: Brings their gifts to the community to serve, not to be served.
• Knows how to forgive and ask for forgiveness when understanding fails.
• Has hope: Hopelessness is the worst torment.
• Good management of frustration.
• Has a sense of humor: Is optimistic. Knows how to see the good things.
• Has a capacity for admiration and gratitude: Routine is present when we cease to admire and appreciate the wonder of life and everything around us.
• Enjoys life with its challenges and problems: Takes advantage when they have as when they do not have.
• Has broad and varied interests: Develops all their areas.
• Does not need to be recognized: Does not fear failure.
• Has a sense of mission: Is committed to ideals and walks toward them.